I spoke to one of my best friends last night . Who am I kidding ? She is my best friend and my other really close female friends know this but no one says anything and they know I really love them and we spoke for quite a while,I was for the better part of the conversation ,intoxicated and we laughed and spoke about the most inappropriate things (I think I’ve emotional and psychologically scarred Nicole and maybe Deborah a bit). Nicole got invited to a wedding introduction yesterday and she was stunning . I try my best to remind (even though they already know) my really close female friends and family that they are beautiful (because they are duhhh).
This morning I saw photos from the event she attended last night , turns out the beautiful dress she wore was made by another of our super close friend Pauline; She’s super talented but will never make my low-cut tops the way I want them to look ,she says why do I want to flash my chest (cause they aren’t big enough to be called breasts) to the public. Nikky was stunning (it’s not even a joke),so I reposted the photo Pauline posted to show off the dress she made and I captioned it : I have pretty friends sha . Back tracking , my roommate (and new friend/sister) Fannie posted a throwback photo today and she’s beautiful. I think that might be what triggered my little moment of being taken aback at how beautiful my female friends are but I feel a wee bit terrible because I said “I have pretty friends sha” because they are much more than beautiful and I can beat my chest and honestly say I chose wisely. When I look at the females in my life , from my mother to Sister to my aunties and cousins to my boss to my best friends (I could have simply said my family and friends but they all deserve their own shout out), I’d say I am extremely lucky and grateful to have them in my life . They inspire me positively . The men is my life starting from my grandfather (the love of my life) to my dad to my brother and uncles. They are cool but they are nothing like the women in my life . I have seen females that can’t even say a single good thing about the women in their lives and here I am with women that always pick me up when I fall and not ask me what I’m doing on the floor in the first place. They show me what kind of woman I want to be ; get ready for this storm (me) world !
To every human on the planet reading this, I can tell you that the women who inspire you and are in your life will shape who you turn out to be ,so it is important you make yourself a good and toxic-free woman to another woman or man because what you want or how you want to be treated should be who you are and how you treat people. The women in my life are beautiful,talented,smart,driven,kind,caring ,sweet,strong,wise,funny,cheeky,spiritual,focused and most importantly feminists (even though some of them don’t even agree that they are).
Women in the world have to support women is literally my mantra and I live by that code because the women in my life support me. Imagine a world where everyone had the women in my life, this planet would be heaven on earth literally because the women in my life are environmentally conscious (something they still don’t know about themselves that I see every time) or maybe you all need a woman like me . I’ve accepted that the world hates women especially the most of governments in the world. A family doesn’t want to be in the spotlight anymore and Whose fault is that ? Oh! It’s Meghan’s, she’s controlling Harry. I am so sure if Melanie Trump (forgive me , I’m not sure that’s how it’s spelled and won’t research either because I’m not sure she’d put in a lot of effort in trying to pronounce my name correctly neither) was a politically assertive woman like Patience Jonathan was, the world would say she convinced her husband to send the missile he sent to Iran. If the world chooses to constantly pick on women, Women shouldn’t be the one picking on women too. It’s a different situation if a woman did something cheeky to another woman and is being called out or a fight ensues between the two women (that is simply being a human being ) but actively trying to bring about the downfall of another woman in a world that already puts down women should be considered a terrorist act. Like the amazing women in my life , I choose to be an amazing woman in their lives as well and the lives of other women (and men) in the world . Be an Amazing woman today (I’m talking to men too).
P.S: I felt weird calling myself a woman the entire time I wrote this because I consider myself a baby girl for life.
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